The Love Reset:
Break unhealthy love patterns, rebuild self-trust + feel secure choosing and receiving healthy love.
8-WEEK PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING
For the woman who is self aware but knows something still needs to change in love.
Start your love reset
You know your patterns.
Yet you still overthink, question yourself, and find yourself in the same cycles.
And deep down, you're afraid that opening your heart again means losing yourself.
The Love Reset was created for the woman who's done the work but is ready to heal differently.
Together, we'll help you trust yourself, break old patterns, and create relationships that feel safe, mutual, and aligned.
Because healing isn't about knowing more.
It's about experiencing love differently.
You've taken the breaks.
You've done the work.
You've become incredibly self-aware.
And yet…
Now I help women stop overthinking, trust themselves deeply, and experience love differently.
Here's My story:
At 30, a heartbreak changed everything.
What I thought would last forever ended suddenly, and I found myself questioning my worth and wondering why love always felt so hard.
Like many women, I became an expert at overthinking, overgiving, and waiting to be chosen.
Until one day, I chose myself.
I booked a one-way ticket, not just to another country, but back to me.
Over the years, I learned how to create safety within myself, heal old patterns, and experience love differently through attachment work, nervous system healing, and embodiment.
Today, as a Licensed Therapist and Love & Relationship Coach, I help women do the same.
Because you don't need more dating advice.
You need to feel safe enough to trust yourself again.
When a woman feels safe within herself, she stops chasing, chooses differently, and becomes available for the healthy love she desires.
You want to:
Feel safe in your body.
Trust yourself deeply.
Stop chasing and start receiving.
Create relationships that feel calm, mutual, and secure.
Build a life that feels like home.
She's tired of the same patterns.
She's tired of questioning herself.
And she's ready for a different experience of love.
Experience love that feels calm, mutual, and consistent.
Stop carrying relationships on your own.
Feel secure within yourself, whether you're dating, in a relationship, or building a life you love.
Trust yourself deeply and date with confidence.
When You Work With Me, You’ll…
Become available for the healthy partnership you desire.
Move from anxious to secure.
A 3-Step Framework to Feel Safe in Love Again
The Love Reset Method
Phase 1: Rewire
THE PATTERNS KEEPING YOU STUCK
You know better, but somehow keep finding yourself in the same patterns.
Together, we’ll uncover how past relationships, family dynamics + what you learned about love shaped the way you show up today so you can stop overgiving, chasing unavailable love, getting attached to potential + confusing chemistry with compatibility.
Phase 2: Regulate
BUILD SELF-TRUST + FEEL SECURE IN LOVE
Knowing the pattern is one thing. Choosing differently when you’re triggered is another.
You’ll learn how to stop spiraling, trust your intuition, honor your needs + boundaries, and feel more grounded in yourself so you can stop second-guessing everything and start choosing what’s actually healthy for you.
Phase 3: Embody
CHOOSE + RECEIVE HEALTHY LOVE
This is where you start showing up differently in love. Instead of worrying about being chosen, you trust yourself enough to choose, too.
You’ll practice honoring your standards, asking for what you need, receiving without overgiving + walking away from what isn’t aligned.
Less “Do they choose me?” More “Do I choose this?”
"Norma is the
perfect guide."
"She doesn't just help you navigate heartbreak- she empowers you to reclaim your peace and confidence. I deeply appreciated her compassionate, nonjudgmental approach to coaching. As a psychologist, I was initially concerned that my professional background might lead to judgment if I struggled to apply certain skills. However, Norma created a safe, supportive space where I felt completely at ease. Beyond helping me navigate the emotional, mental, and physical challenges of heartbreak, she went further by addressing my fears of failure related to starting my own business. Her guidance was holistic, empowering, and exactly what I needed during a pivotal time in my life." - Anonymous client
"I GOT MY POWER BACK"
"My coaching experience with Norma helped me take back my power. For long, I felt completely lost and incapable of moving on. I was stuck, but I made the intentional decision to heal. Every session was part of a profound reawakening. I learned to repurpose my thoughts and energy in a way that would serve me better. I walked away with a profound sense of self - trusting and knowing I was deserving of true love - one that sometimes we can only give ourselves. I accomplished far more in 12 weeks of working with her in 1:1 coaching than 14+ months if therapy. I cannot thank her enough for allowing space to find myself again. Norma's program SAVED my life!" - Anonymous client
You’ve poured into everyone else now it’s your turn.
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*3 month or 6 month
Payment Plans Available
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Access to meditations, affirmations, embodiment rituals, and “Date Yourself” practices to support your growth beyond sessions.
Love Expansion Toolkit
A customized roadmap plan tailored to your unique goals, attachment style, and relationship history.
Personalized Love Roadmap


Weekly 60-minute personalized sessions via Zoom where we dive into my signature 3-step Love Reset framework.
8-Week Private Coaching calls
Private Voxer or messaging access for guidance, emotional support, and accountability between sessions.
Between-Session support
Integrative practices including breathwork, sound healing, nervous system regulation, and energy alignment.
Somatic & Energetic tools
YOU'VE DONE ENOUGH TRYING. It's time to experience love differently.
Because real change doesn't happen by knowing more.
It happens when your body finally learns that love no longer has to feel like survival.
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Real Women. Real Shifts. See What’s Possible for You.
"growing more confident in trusting my intuition without second-guessing myself. I’ve also gained a deeper understanding of my emotions, learning to recognize their origins and explore their root causes. "
"I developed a renewed sense of confidence in my personal life, which naturally extended into my professional and career pursuits. "
"I HAVE awareness of the mind-body connection. I become more intentional about noticing how my body responds to emotions, allowing me to tune into physical sensations as valuable cues."
"I struggled with trusting myself, believing I was worthy of love, and allowing people into my life. I often had a big guard up because I didn’t want to get hurt."
"I learned to soften and receive while still honoring my needs and wants. I stopped second-guessing myself and allowed myself to show"up as my magnetic self in dating
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And I know what it's like to lose yourself in love.
I know what it's like to overgive, stay too long, and keep your heart open while quietly abandoning yourself.
I also know what it's like to do the therapy, understand your patterns, and still feel anxious, activated, or unsure of yourself in relationships.
My own heartbreak became an invitation to heal differently.
I learned how to stop chasing, trust myself deeply, and create safety within. I discovered that love wasn't meant to feel confusing or earned.
Today, I help self-aware women do the same.
Because you don't need to fix yourself.
You need to feel safe enough to trust yourself again.
And when you do, everything changes.
Love becomes calm.
Your needs matter.
And you no longer lose yourself trying to be chosen.
Ready to experience love differently?
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